Sometimes I feel like my boss do not really appreciate my hard work. I am not sure if it is simply because he knows I always do my work diligently, or he sincerely does not seem to appreciate what I contribute. It’s like it’s expected of me, so he’s not going to show his appreciation—kind of attitude. I remembered when I asked him for a letter of recommendation, he only wrote about five sentences and it was filled with punctuation and grammatical errors, versus another letter of recommendation for another girl who only worked half as long as I did and hers was at least longer than mine. I just do not understand the difference. I have worked there for over two years, which is longer than most of the people we currently have on our staff and they seem to be able to hold his attention for even a good minute, whereas he does not even give me that first glance of attention!
He also let his favorites slide on the uniform protocol! Basically, all servers (minus 2 guys) are female girls. We have long hair. I always have my hair up in a half-bun, which is good because nothing will fall out of it. But when I have it as a regular long ponytail, he tells me to put an extra clip. Then there’s other girls’ hair who’s longer than mine and are loosely tied and he does not tell them to double band their hair! Some even have lose bangs hanging in front of their face and he does not tell them to pull it back!! I just get really annoyed. He’s not consistent with what our uniform should look like (non-rolled sleeves only, and yet he lets other have it rolled up). Ughhhh.
I don’t know. I’m not sure if I should tell him about my concerns. At the same time, he only told me of the incoming possible opening as a higher-up staff for when I graduate. I’m already getting the biggest pay and benefits of a student worker, so I can only go higher if I graduate. But IDKKK. We’ll just have to see….
Some people are just not meant to stay connected with or involved in your life. Sometimes, it is better to cut them loose. Yes, it may hurt for the first couple of seconds but the cut will heal.
A pretty face, a good-looking body, warm personality,a good friend…. All that becomes MEANINGLESS when a hand was used to strike an intimate partner.
It brings me SO MUCH HATE when I see that kind of shit. I honestly can’t take it. You better beware around me because I will do something about it even if it does not involve me.